Minister and Staff Blogs
From the Ministers, September 2018
Friends, last month we blessed the backpacks of those heading back to school, or work, or to their next adventure. With their various pens, papers, rulers and laptops, we sent our blessings, that those backpacks might be strong and resilient, and that the owners know they are loved and supported.
It seems to us that everyone could use some blessing, and some supplies. So friends, it’s time to do some spiritual prep work.
What might we need to embark on another school year, another church year, another – dare we even say it? – election season? We get daunted just thinking about it; are you, too? What do we need in order to fulfill our mission and vision, and the ends (that is, goals) for our congregation in this year and into the future?
A quick reminder of those ends:
UUCB is a vibrant multicultural, anti-racist, anti-oppressive congregation.
- Reaching Out: We embody and share Unitarian Universalism. Our communities experience UUCB as an active and dynamic partner in pursuing societal and environmental justice. People rely on UUCB in times of need.
- Reaching In: We invite people of goodwill to make a spiritual home with us. We celebrate the diversity of our congregation in the fullness of who we are. We reach out to one another across differences to connect in shared purpose. We have fun!
- Building up: We are generous with our time, talent and treasure. We steward our financial resources responsibly. We are comfortable, open and transparent in discussing both personal and congregational financial matters.
We’ll need some supplies, a sturdy pair of jeans, perhaps, and new soles for those shoes that have almost, but not quite, worn through. We’ll need encouragement, perhaps, with a touch of compassion and empathy, and maybe even a teaspoon of a (metaphorical) kick in the rear end once in a while. We’ll need the energy to reach out to our surrounding community, the compassion and love to embrace people in our congregation and out in the world, and the dedication to build upon the foundations we already have in our congregation so we can have a sustainable, powerful, vibrant community for many years to come.
To reach out we’ll need curiosity and courage. Our surrounding communities in the East Bay are diverse and large, and members of our congregation live in many different neighborhoods.
To reach in we’ll need to be ever more welcoming, always seeking to reach our goal of being an anti-oppressive community, and keep having fun.
Friends, what’s on your list? And more importantly, how can we support you in getting it?
Revs. Christian and Kristin
From the Ministers, August 2018
In one ancient way of thinking, there were four elements that made up all of existence: earth, air, fire, and water.
We know that other traditions had different ways of envisioning what made the world, and that science has expanded and clarified our understanding of the building blocks of existence, but I often return to this way of thinking of four elements as a useful metaphor. It invokes powerful and tactile images of our world.
These elements speak of the different things we experience in the world: the ground beneath us, the warmth of light and fire, the nourishing presence of water, the air we breathe. All of them necessary for life, but all with destructive sides, too. This is the dual reality of our existence.
As each new church year begins, we gather using a ritual called the Water Ceremony. This year’s will be on Sunday, Aug. 26. You’re invited to bring a small sample of water to contribute in this venerable ceremony. First created in 1980 by Carolyn McDade and Lucile Schuck Longview for the Women and Religion Continental Convocation of Unitarian Universalists, the Water Ceremony (also known as Water Ritual or Water Communion) is now a tradition in many UU congregations. From a piece on uua.orgabout the history:
As they shaped that service, McDade and Longview wanted to create a new ritual “that spoke to our connectedness to one another, to the totality of life, and to our place on this planet.” They included a new, inclusive symbol of women’s spirituality: water.
They write, “Water is more than simply a metaphor. It is elemental and primary, calling forth feelings of awe and reverence. Acknowledging that the ocean is considered by many to be the place from which all life on our planet came—it is the womb of life—and that amniotic waters surround each of us prenatally, we now realize that [this worship service] was for us a new story of creation… We choose water as our symbol of our empowerment.”
This year, our water will represent Kansas City, where we’ve been for General Assembly, and Idaho, where we took vacation to visit family. It will also be the water from our household tap, the water that is in the swimming pool we cool off in almost every day, the waters of the bay visible below the terrace at UUCB, and so many other waters.
Each of us brings water (actual water if possible, though we’ll have extra water you can pour in to represent yours if you can’t bring it!) that represents a little bit of us: where we’re from, or where we’ve traveled, or what we’ve done. Together, those many varied waters form a single unit, much like all of us together form this congregation.
May it be so.
Revs. Christian and Kristin
From the Ministers, July 2018
We could not be more excited about the month of July here at UUCB, with a great lineup of preachers in worship and guests in our Summer Forum. Summers at UUCB are a little slower and more relaxed, with fewer events during the week. But Sundays are still a fantastic time to join us for a morning of spiritual exploration and nourishment and a chance to be with the community that is so deeply valuable to us.
Many of us may be taking a little time off, even if it’s just a day trip down to a local park, to enjoy the summer weather. Your co-ministers are taking some time off to see family and restore ourselves after a very busy year. We hope you find time in these summer months, if possible, to refresh and restore yourselves, too. No matter what our schedules are like, it’s important to take time, even if it’s just a moment here or there, to be present to our bodies and minds and be good to ourselves.
We also you to make it here on Sundays whenever you’re able, because we have a fantastic lineup of guest worship leaders joining us. Each summer, we welcome guests to our pulpit to give us different perspectives on the world, and to give our ministers a few Sundays off (already we’ve welcomed Alex Haider-Winnett and the Rev. Nancy McDonald Ladd in June):
- July 1: The Rev. John Buehrens, former UUA president, will join us again. You may have heard him a year ago at our installation. This summer, he’ll preach “On Being Otherwise” for us.
- July 8: Rodney Lemery, a candidate for the UU ministry and intern minister at our sibling congregation in San Jose, will join us to preach about the transformational power of love and re-envisioning Unitarian Universalism in that framework.
- July 15: The Rev. Christine Haider-Winnett (whose spouse Alex preached in June), will preach about her experience as an ordained and excommunicated Catholic woman.
- July 22: Our own Rev. Craig Scott, member of this church and retired UU minister, will preach on the individual and the community, and how those of us committed to both might think about their relationship.
- July 29: Rev. Kristin is back in the pulpit (and Rev. Christian will be back on Aug. 5) and excited about UUCB’s future.
The Summer Forum, which meets at 9:30 on Sundays, is also worth your interest! We always have a great lineup of speakers and workshops in that time. Come early, check it out, stay for worship!
Revs. Christian and Kristin
From the Ministers, June 2018
Dear UUCB members and friends,
This has been a very busy year of programs and ministry for our congregation.
But we also know that play, rest, and renewal are just as important as work, service, and justice.
Our worship theme for the month of June is blessing, and we can think of no greater blessing this time of year than the chance to slow down and take a break. As the school year winds down and we ease into summer, we hope you will take time to rest and tend to your heart and spirit. Whether you’re making a trip somewhere far away or planning more of a “stay-cation” we hope this season will give you a chance to relax, to remember what it’s like to feel bored, to connect with things that you perhaps don’t have time for at other times of the year.
We will be doing the same! After our trip to Kansas City for the Unitarian Universalist Association’s General Assembly, we will be heading up to Idaho for a couple of weeks to visit family. We will be away from June 15-27 for General Assembly and then again July 1-25 for our vacation. As usual, please contact the Pastoral Associates Committee at firstname.lastname@example.org with non-urgent pastoral care needs. The Reverends Sue Magidson and Jane Ramsey will be tending to emergency pastoral needs while we are away. If you call the church office someone there will make sure they receive your message.
Kristin and Christian
From the Ministers, May 2018
Let’s get creative!
For May, our theme in worship will be creativity, and it’s something we think about a lot. As musicians and ministers, cooks and parents and a lot of other things, we create many things. While we may never create a Sistine Chapel or a renowned symphony, every day each of us creates new things and new ideas.
Our church is no different. A lot of things have changed in the 127 years this church has been plugging along, and the constant creativity of our members and friends is a big part of that.
Lately, we’ve been working hard to think creatively about how we do church and what we can do better or differently as we enter into a new era – and hint, we’re always entering into a new era! The world keeps on changing, and we have to change with it.
The board’s working groups on sustainability are a big part of this creative thinking. The working groups are tasked with gathering information about a number of different ways we can ensure the financial sustainability of this church into the future, and thinking creatively about solutions that might not seem obvious at first will be an important part of their work.
Our social justice council thinks each year about where it is being called and what it will focus on. The creativity and commitment of those who have worked this year to make us a sanctuary congregation and prepare to help immigrant families has been inspiring, as has the work of the Green Sanctuary team in engaging us around environmental issues.
The creativity of our music program, which each year leads us to new heights with all of their work in worship, in performances, and in rehearsal deserves all the praise it gets and more.
Our family ministry program has been working on how they can best balance a lot of competing needs and desires and is thinking creatively about what is best for our congregation, our children, and our staff. Even something as simple as moving our nursery for a few weeks so that we could revamp the nursery building took a creative mindset to make happen.
We’ve also done creative work in worship: to give one significant example, in Reverse RE (Religious Education) we thought creatively about how we do worship and opportunities for spiritual deepening by reversing our usual pattern. Instead of children leaving the sanctuary to go to their activities, they stayed in for worship and we invited the adults to leave for various opportunities.
It’s tempting to stay in the same old comfortable patterns, but we can’t. A new world requires our commitment, our love, and our creativity to come fully alive.
Revs. Christian and Kristin
From the Ministers, April 2018
We write this in the wake of massive walkouts, in which hundreds of thousands of students—high school, middle school, even elementary—left school to make a statement: that we must work to end gun violence, and that there must be an end to mass shootings in our country. We watched students ask for something simple but difficult: a safer world.
How can any of us do less than these brave students?
Unitarian Universalists have been at the forefront of many of the social justice movements in our country’s history, and the time has come again. So many issues matter right now, to us and to our communities: oppression of all kinds, poverty, income inequality, racial justice, immigration, gun violence, the environment, to name just a few, knowing that so many more also matter.
The needs of the world can be daunting. It’s important to remember that we’re not responsible for fixing everything. But we are responsible for doing what we can, when we can.
For those of us not in school, a walkout is perhaps no longer our best mode of protest. But we have many ways to make a difference:
- In this year, we vote. Hundreds of races at the national level, and thousands at other levels, will be contested in 2018. Making sure that every person who can vote does should be among our top priorities.
- Getting out and supporting candidates and issues. Many of our members have done this and know what a difference it makes.
- Getting involved in government: let our elected officials know what we think and why it matters. Write, call, and show up at their offices and meetings.
- Work with our partners in the community. As a congregation and in our social justice council, we have done work with local, state, national and international partners.
- Get involved (or more involved) in our work as a sanctuary congregation, or in a social justice issue that matters to you.
- And yes, marching or protesting in the streets to make it known how we feel and how many of us there are.
It’s a challenging time in our world, and we are called in it to do more than we have done before in order to achieve results we have never known before.
We’re thrilled, always, to be the senior co-ministers of a congregation that is engaging deeply with the world’s issues, with members and friends that bring such an array of experiences and skills. Together, we can make a difference; how can we do any less?
Revs. Christian and Kristin
From the Ministers, March 2018
In worship this month at UUCB we will be exploring the theme of “balance.” We follow the Soul Matters pre-chosen schedule of themes along with many other congregations around the country, and yet this theme seems particularly relevant here and now. As we draw nearer to spring, nights that were so long in winter are growing shorter and the sun is beginning to rise earlier each morning. Families are getting back into the regular routine after a recent week off from school. And we are working on reaching greater balance in several areas here at church.
We are making strides in reaching new financial balance as a congregation. The Board welcomes your participation in the working groups it is forming to explore some potential paths toward a financially sustainable future for the church. If you are interested, please fill out the application (see “From the Board” below). Alongside those efforts, your Coordinating Team is working hard to craft a budget that is not only balanced but will carry a surplus in order to begin addressing the deficit that built up over the last few years. Also, the committee to oversee the five deferred maintenance projects for which the congregation approved funding last month has been formed. They should be starting their work together by the time you read this article.
Because the realities of 21st century church mean we are “always in beta mode,” we have evaluated some of the new initiatives we began in the fall and have decided to continue some, retire others, and start two new ones. In particular, participation in Community Office Hours and the weekly Sunday morning Adult RE classes has been spotty, so we will be retiring Community Office Hours and shifting to a once-a-month (rather than once-a-week) Sunday morning Adult RE schedule. That said, our First Thursday evening potlucks have seen pretty steady participation and Church on Tap has been growing.
We’ve noticed among the congregation many who are experiencing significant but varied transitions in both young adulthood and the second half of life. So, we are in the process of organizing both a support group for people in later life and a young adult group. It looks like we will try a young adult group once a month on Sundays after worship, perhaps going out to lunch together at a nearby restaurant. The support group for those in later life would also meet once a month, and will offer those facing the “empty nest,” navigating retirement, grieving the loss of friends and loved ones, or struggling with poverty in later life a space to speak their truth and draw support and strength from one another.
In a world profoundly unbalanced in so many ways, may we all use this season to make the small changes we can to grow toward greater balance of work and rest, goals and spontaneity, heart and mind in our lives.
Kristin and Christian
From the Ministers, February 2018
Every day at UUCB we are impressed and humbled by the commitment that members of this community bring to living out our values here at church and in the wider world. The time and talent that volunteers and staff spend making our worship, education, justice, and fellowship gatherings and activities happen is amazing, and it speaks to the importance of this community in our lives and the lives of the communities of which we are a part.
But it takes more than generous commitments of time and talent to fuel the ministries our congregation is known and loved for; it takes generous commitments of treasure, too. This year, our Stewardship Team has set a goal of a 20% increase in financial commitments for the upcoming fiscal year. The Team will be sending out information and talking with the congregation about the importance of this year’s goal. All throughout the month of March worship will include a focus on the value of stewardship and everyone will be invited to consider what they feel called to pledge, or promise, in terms of financial support to fuel the mission of this congregation for the 2018-2019 fiscal year. And March 25 is Celebration Sunday, when our guest preacher will be UUA Co-Moderator Barb Greve, and everyone will have the opportunity to make their financial pledge during the service.
As many of you know, and as was discussed at the special congregational meeting at the end of January, our congregation is in the midst of discerning how best to support our thriving ministries as we make decisions about the future of our campus. The Board is actively recruiting volunteers for working groups to explore several ways we might proceed into the future in a sustainable way. Along similar lines, the Coordinating Team and our treasurer are crafting a budget that reflects changing times; the budget will be balanced, but hopefully not by making painful cuts.
After carefully considering all of this, our family is increasing our pledge this year by 25%. Though we know not everyone will have the means to make such an increase, we encourage you to think deeply about how much this congregation matters in your life and how much you can increase your pledge to help us live even more fully into our mission to “create loving community, inspire spiritual growth, and encourage lives of integrity, joy, and service.”
One especially exciting part about stewardship this year is the debut of online giving! It’s up, running, and an option available for anyone to use that connects directly with our database system. In fact, we have already received $9,000 in pledges and other giving online. If you’d like to give this way, just click the “Give” button at the top of our website www.uucb.org and follow the instructions. If you run into any trouble, just call the office or speak to a Stewardship Team member. However much you are able to give this year, and by whatever method you choose to do so, we are proud to serve with such generous, committed people. May our generosity and our commitment continue to guide us all well.
Revs. Christian and Kristin
From the Ministers, January 2018
This month, we will be exploring the theme of “intention” in worship here at the UU Church of Berkeley. This seems like a wise thing for each of us to focus on as we begin the first month of a new year. But it seems even more auspicious considering what lies ahead of us as a congregation.
Like most other religious institutions today, we are in the process of figuring out how best to “do church” in the 21st century. As part of that, we are faced with several significant decisions, the most pressing of which have to do with how we can create a path toward financial sustainability. In brief, we have more building maintenance expenses than we can find funds to cover in our yearly budgets without making cuts that would impact our most beloved and effective programs. As a result, we have a significant deficit that has built up over many years.
This is a situation that can’t continue forever, but thankfully it’s anything but dire. Our church is rich in so many ways. We are blessed with an incredibly valuable property, considerable endowed funds, vibrant ministries and programs, and a congregation filled with passionate, intelligent, wise, and faithful people who are capable of making hard decisions guided by our values rather than fear. While this community may have to consider some changes that feel hard and unpleasant, these are very solvable challenges.
When it comes to making big decisions together as a community, the most important thing we can focus on is the process we use to do so. Your Board has been doing a wonderful job discerning a good process for exploring every potential option and leaving no stone unturned in the quest to find a financially sustainable path. Some of those stones include assessing our community’s capacity for a significant capital campaign, assessing our staffing structure in case there is some money to be saved there, and evaluating whether this is truly the right location and set of facilities for us today. Perhaps there are even more stones, like finding another organization to share our campus with us, or stones nobody has even thought of yet.
Ultimately, as your co-ministers, we are not on any “side” of this issue. We are committed to ministering with and among this community no matter what decision is reached to address the challenges ahead. Because no matter what our annual budget is, the state of repair of our buildings, or even where we are located, our call to be a liberal religious community where people can nurture their spirits and help heal our world will be the same. May we approach our challenges, whether in our personal lives or here at church, with great intention and commitment to our callings.
Happy New Year!
Reverends Christian and Kristin
From the Ministers, December 2017
Happy Holidays! Even here in the temperate Bay Area, there’s a bit of a nip in the air. The nights are longer and longer as we approach the winter solstice, and both in our congregation and in our personal lives this is the season of holidays.
Our diverse religious community has people who celebrate both many different holidays and none at all. Those may include Hanukkah, Solstice, Christmas, Kwanzaa, and more. Though each of these comes from a unique tradition and has its own distinctive elements, they do share some things in common, not the least of them being that all occur about the same time in the calendar year. Each also reminds us of traditions handed down from those who have come before, each encourages us to be together in community, and each reminds us that love and joy and hope can come to us even in the least likely of times and places.
So it is again this year. In what has been a trying year, we wait and hope.
What does it mean to celebrate in this season when many of us have struggled this year? Whether that was because of wildfires across the North Bay that have taken homes and lives, other natural disasters that have touched us or those we love, or difficulties in health, finances, or other parts of our lives, many of us have felt pain and difficulty in 2017.
As we enter December and the onslaught of holidays, find time to be kind to yourself. Remember that it’s OK not to feel joyful, regardless of what the world around us tells us. It’s also certainly OK to feel joyful, too! Make sure that you care for your own needs first, so that each of us can be healthy as the demands of the season crop up.
And when things start to seem overwhelming, either because of all the difficulties in the world, or just the difficulties in your own household, we offer this thought: Hope. Each of us can access hope, even if we have to borrow a little from a friend!
It doesn’t always make sense, nor does it need to. Hope isn’t a rational evaluation at our prospects; often it is despite a rational evaluation of our prospects. As the Unitarian minister Theodore Parker once said, we believe that the arc of the universe bends toward justice. The problem is that it bends very slowly, and sometimes even takes a bend in the wrong direction temporarily. Our lifetimes will not be enough to fix every problem or disaster, but our hope lies in that our collective efforts, given enough time, can make a real and lasting difference for the good in our world. Hope can help us through the worst of situations, not because it blinds us to difficult realities, but because it brings out the best in us despite those realities. In this season of holidays, may hope come to each of us as the most precious gift.
Revs. Christian and Kristin