Chalice Circles (Small Group Ministry)
Pop Up Food Drive for Berkeley Food Pantry
A great big thanks to everyone who participated in last weekend’s Pop up Food Drive to benefit our May Good Neighbor – The Berkeley Food Pantry! The Chalice Circles (led by Jean Hyams, and her incredible organizational skills) organized the food drive which occurred on May 22nd from 9-2. Dozens of chalice circle participants were on hand to volunteer. We had many people from our congregation come and donate food and funds to the cause. Our on site schools (Pine Crest and Good Earth) both advertised the food drive, and many families and their kids came to contribute, as well. We collected close to $2,500 in checks and cash and we delivered four very full car loads of food to the pantry at the end of the day. It was truly a celebration of gratitude and generosity. Thank you everybody!
In our religious tradition, our own lives are considered sacred texts in which we find truths as profound and as powerful as in any religion’s scriptures.
– UU minister Erik Wikstrom, Spirit in Practice
We warmly invite you to participate in Small Group Ministry at UUCB. Recognizing the Unitarian Universalist call to minister to each other and to the world, Chalice Circles provide a unique opportunity to engage in the spiritual practice of deep listening. Please contact us by email to get more information on signing up.
The intimacy of these spiritual groups enriches the participants’ lives with greater depth of meaning. Chalice Circle practice complements our Sunday morning and Thursday evening services.
Chalice Circles meet twice a month for an hour and a half to two hours. The format of the meetings helps participants set aside daily distractions, reflect on their lives and beliefs, and make meaningful connections with one another. Through sharing their wisdom, members leave each meeting with a deeper understanding of themselves and of each other. Each Chalice Circle becomes a small, personal community of listening and caring in the midst of a large congregation.
Joining a Circle
Chalice circles generally run from October through May. While it is nice to start in at the beginning, you may join at any time! Many circles begin in October, while others start in January depending on the availability of facilitators.
There is no cost to join, and you do not have to be a member of the church to participate. Chalice Circles most often take place at the church, but we also encourage facilitators to run Circles out of their homes whenever possible.
Please contact us by email to get more information on signing up.
A Unitarian Universalist Spiritual Practice
A mutual ministry based on sharing our life experiences and lived wisdom is a spiritual practice that is uniquely Unitarian Universalist. We bear witness to each other’s worth and dignity.
Why Join a Chalice Circle?
Participate in a supportive, nurturing group setting that facilitates spiritual growth and mutual caring.
Grow at your own pace and in your own way through authentic speaking, deep listening, reflecting, and serving.
Explore your own values by articulating them in a supportive setting.
Develop friendships with interesting people you might otherwise never get to know.
What a Chalice Circle is Intended to Be
A way to deepen our spirituality through a shared practice.
A way to share our thoughts on life’s big questions.
A way to connect across age, gender, ethnic, economic and other differences.
A way to be engaged, included, and heard in a safe, nurturing environment.
A way to bring together the newer and the longtime members in our community.
A way to deepen our practice of shared UU principles.
A way to practice service from within a small community.
A way to develop our connections with the rest of the congregation.
What a Chalice Circle is NOT Intended to Be:
A social club, although ties between church members deepen through Chalice Circles.
A debate society, although many important topics are discussed.
A support or therapy group, although the atmosphere is positive.
A worship service, although the meetings and topics have a strong spiritual tone.
A rigid template of activities, although there are general guidelines to follow.
A closed club, although groups must be limited in size to be effective.
How Does It Work? A Spiritual Practice
Small Group Ministry is a spiritual practice that creates a sacred space where we can tell the stories of our lives, be heard, and listen deeply to those of our companions. This is the heart of the Chalice Circle experience; all of the other parts of the format are designed to support this.
It has four parts. The first is preparation to discuss the topic. At the end of each meeting the facilitator passes out the topic for the next meeting, expanded by a number of leading questions to help the participants focus their thoughts. This lead-time is important for a person’s thinking process to consider the most relevant experiences and to build the courage to speak their truth.
The second part is the exercise of telling that story in a protected space to a group of people who are similarly vulnerable. This is a wonderful experience: to be listened to. Most participants don’t realize how rare this is and how much they want it until they experience it in a Small Group Ministry setting. It is a feeling of being both known and valued.
The third element of this experience is deep listening. This comes naturally to people who have practiced meditation, because they have trained themselves to empty their minds and listen to their breath, to be open to the sounds of the environment, to allow their own feelings and thoughts to dissolve and dissipate. This same attentiveness and egoless-ness is the hallmark of deeply listening to the experiences being narrated by fellow members of a Chalice Circle. It is a matter of standing out of the way so as to empathetically participate in the speaker’s experience. The result is a kaleidoscope of experiences around the topic of the meeting.
The fourth element, and possibly the most transformative, is a second round of response or “awakening,” which is exactly where the transformative power for building community within the chalice circle resides. In the first round, we learn to listen deeply; in the second round we learn to integrate our combined insights into a new more connected understanding of what forges a true spiritual life and community.
Chalice Circles with Special Themes
On occasion, a Chalice Circle may have a particular focus. For example, in 2016-2017 three circles formed around specific themes:
- one on social justice
- one for those who have recently lost a spouse/partner through death
- and one circle which is using yoga as an additional lens.
All circles, however use the Chalice model of appreciative listening!
For Chalice Circle Facilitators
Preparation handouts and Orders of Service for many sessions can be downloaded from this page.